There are times when I come to my computer and I don’t know what to write. It is those days when I am either having a good day or so much going on, I am on autopilot. But that is okay. Because we have all have seen days that are good, and days that just seem to be nothing special. It is okay to just be okay. No day is going to be perfect, without any frustration or stress. Sometimes it is just about finding the grace in an average day.
I don’t always like it when friends ask me, “how are you?” Mostly because I don’t know how I am. When I get into those autopilot days, I am not happy. But I am not sad either. I am not good, or bad. I am just…here. And it has taken me so long to realize that it was alright for me to be this way. I didn’t always need to have an answer to the question.
Just another grey day
Average days are not bad days. So, maybe something amazing didn’t happen. Or I didn’t have some great event take place. No problem. Because at the same side, I didn’t have a traumatic event happen either. My days may feel just alright or routine. If my days have more clouds than sun, no problem. An average is always better than facing too many stormy days.
The next time someone asks you, “how are you today?” feel free to just say I am okay. Let the average day(s) be what they are. Don’t let a grey day become any darker. It is easy to turn an average day into a depression day. So, keep a focus on the positive that happens and let the day be. Because tomorrow is a fresh start to something beautiful.
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With great warmth,
